What about those of you who choose same sex partners? Do you like to be the smallest?
If so could you identify why?
I myself like my men tiny,I could only ever go out with someone skinny and I am fully aware that if I were a man it woudl not be cool at all to say that. Perhaps it is also not cool to say it as a girl. My boyfriend of the last 7 years is taller then me and weighs less, he has a BMI of approx 19. At night I like to curl myself around him and once he is asleep i count his vertebrae, i feel his hip bones and i run my hands over his ribs and his legs. It makes me happy at sad and the same time. I think for me it is because I could not stand the thought of someone having control over me...physically as well as emotionally. My first boyfriend was built like a brick shit house and treated me like dirt.