Then she brought in the eating disorder. She said that it was pointless to come in if I was afraid to change. That it would be a waste of time for both of us. So now I'm not going anymore. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I mean, I see where she's coming from.
But what do you guys think of this? Is it pointless to help someone who isn't sure if they want change? I feel like wanting change is so hard to do alone. I mean if I didn't have a problem with change, I wouldn't be here in the first place. I see where she is coming from. Sometimes those who are so "deep" in their disorder lie in therapy just to get out--it's a waste of time. I just feel stuck. I didn't feel comfortable going in the first place. It's weird, because the dean said I had to do this to stay this semester. But then my therapist called and told her she didn't think it was for me. I'm rambling...blah.