Grace (deathrvltn) wrote in ed_ucate,
Grace
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Hey community!
 
 I'm having a bit of trouble lately. Mostly, with dealing with my self confidence with my boyfriend of six months.
He's wonderful, and understanding, but I'd be stupid if I didn't realize how irritating I've been the last few months.
I constantly need reasurance, although it's a conversation I've had many time (And perhaps some of you have, too;)

Him: What's wrong?
Me: Nothing...
Him: No, really. What's wrong?
Me: I don't know. (pause) I just feel gross today.
Him: You know you're not gross, though.
Me: But I feel so bad and I don't know how you can look at me and think I'm beautiful.
Him: I think you're the most beautiful girl in the world. I wish you would believe me. I hate when you don't believe me.
Me: Okay, I know, I'm being stupid. I love you. I'm really sorry.
Him: It's okay, I love you too.
Me: But do you promise you think I'm pretty?


The question is:
Does this constant need of reasurance from your significant other ever stop? 



Thank you for reading, and feel free to post ANY tips at all you have!

I'm going to the beach with him for the first time this weekend, and I may explode from worry and fear of stepping into my bathing suit. I want him to be able to enjoy our date without me ruining it by constantly needing him to make me feel good about myself.

Love,
Grace
Have a nice day everyone!



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