To make this on-topic, I have a question for you.
Would you rather...
a) feel that your friends are concerned about you because of your eating disorder, but pester you about being healthier,
b) be left alone, but feel ignored?
Ideally, there should always be a balance, but that can be so difficult.
A parallel situation: A girl says to her boyfriend "Give me some space." He stops calling her. She feels abandoned.
I guess I always feel like it's a no-win situation.