something that i've been thinking about lately is what triggers an ED. for each individual there is probably something different, like a certain comment or event. i've often wondered how these triggers effect some people and not others. when i see an overweight person walking around strutting their stuff, it makes me wonder what gives them that confidence that I lack? what makes them thinks it's okay to be that size but for me it's not? have any of you guys ever thought about this and what turned you on or off of an ED?